By now most of you have heard about the House’s failure to pass marriage equality. Unfortunately, we couldn’t amass the votes required, and as a result gay and lesbian Marylanders will go at least another year without equal marriage rights.
As disappointed as I am, I can’t begin to imagine how my gay and lesbian colleagues and friends feel. To be told you aren’t worthy of certain rights merely because you were born a certain way is as unfair as it is degrading. Further, it stands in stark contrast to what I understand American values to be.
For me, this is a matter of what kind of country we want to be. Do we want to be a country that tells some citizens they are not worthy of the right to build a family through a strong marriage, simply because the person they love is of the same sex? Do we want to be a country that sends a message to gay and lesbian children across America that they are, as my friend Delegate Luke Clippinger put it, “less than human”? Or do we want to recognize that one of our country’s biggest assets has always been its diversity? Do we want to live up to the expectations of those who delegated us to uphold the constitution?
In spite of yesterday’s setback, I remain confident that marriage equality’s day will come in Maryland. You can only stand in the way of progress for so long before the tides of virtue wash away prejudice, and justice ultimately prevails. We have seen this throughout America’s history, and, with your help, we will see it once more when marriage equality is signed into law.
Thank you to everyone who has reached out to me on this issue over the past few months. I look forward to hearing from you in the future, as we focus on what the next steps will be.